Is There's Something About Mary (1998) Woke?

There's Something About Mary arrived in the summer of 1998 as a thoroughly unreflective romantic comedy, a film that treats its female protagonist as a collection of desirable attributes rather than a coherent human being. The narrative engine runs on the assumption that multiple men competing for a woman's affection constitutes entertainment, while Mary herself functions less as a character and more as a prize to be won. The Farrelly Brothers' sensibility here is conspicuously indifferent to the concept of female agency, depicting her romantic interest in the three men as something to be earned through persistence, deception, or physical comedy rather than genuine connection or her own desires.

The film's approach to its female lead, despite Cameron Diaz's considerable screen presence, reflects a pre-contemporary understanding of gender dynamics. Mary is presented as simultaneously hypersexualized and infantilized, the object of a male gaze that treats her as simultaneously desirable and somewhat simple-minded. The supporting female characters fare no better, existing primarily as punchlines or obstacles. The comedy derives largely from bodily humor and masculine anxiety, with no apparent interest in interrogating the power dynamics at play or the objectification inherent in its central premise.

From a modern perspective, the film reads as a cultural artifact from an era before contemporary social consciousness about representation and gender became industry standard. It exhibits none of the markers of progressive sensibility that would emerge in mainstream comedy over the following decades. The film is not interested in examining its own assumptions about women, desire, or relationships. This is purely entertainment designed around a male perspective, asking for nothing more than laughter at situations and bodies.